If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't choose to rest in the other person's heart.

If you find someone else in love with you and you don't love her/him, feel honored that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return. Do not take advantage, do not cause pain.

How you deal with love is how you deal with you, and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are different.

If you fall in love with another, and she/he falls in love with you, and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame, Let it go. There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will know in time.

Remember that you don't choose love. Love chooses you. All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life. Feel the way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away.

Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you. Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you in anyway you can.

This is where many lovers go wrong. Having been so long without love, they understand love only as a need. They see their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love, and they begin to look at love as something that flows to them rather than from them.

The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as need. They cease to be someone who generates love and instead become someone who seeks love. They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away.

Remember this, and keep it to your heart. Love has its own time, its own seasons, and its own reason for coming and going. You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into saying. You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you.

But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do. Love always has been and always will be a mystery.

Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life. Don't deny love just only you don't want to be hurt... IF YOU KEEP YOUR HEART OPEN, IT WILL COME AGAIN .

from pwinkk.muii: to all the peeps out there.. *open out y0ur heart*..~

i heard things very true when i was feeling down that day..

now i'm going to share with everyone what i've heard on that day

"be contented with what you r having rite now..

one should not be too greedy..

as wat the chinese sayings stated..

"don't wear such a big hat on a small head"...

don't ask for more..
always thinking that someone will still accept you is not a good thing..

forgoing something more precious then come to regret it in the end is called

"stupidity"

dun ever take things for granted..

you may not encounter such things everytime..

zuo ren yao zhi zhu..
bu neng tai tan xin..

be true to others.. think for others before you make any decisions..

saying sorry sometimes dun mean anything..

what's the point in saying sorry after the hurt is being done..

if sorry is so useful, in this world there will not be anymore law enforcers around..
lawyers will oso lose their job ..

" Things are not always what they seem to be.. "

At some crossroads in life, you will realize how wrong you have been.

How life has such a great twist to it, a special gift which you never expected.

Pleasant or nort depends on personal definition, personal perception, personal attitude, personal judgement.

No one can tell you what to do & where to go.

Likewise, no one can judge foryo u whether the surprise was a pleasant one.

yoU, & only yoU, Can determine for yourself how you want to handle the surprises tat life has in store for you.

Embrace them with a positive attitude and you will definitely live to enjoy it to the fullest.

Dwell on the past and you will never see the doors of opportunities in front of you.

Believe in yourself and move on to a brighter and greener pasture that awaits ahead..!

Very meaningful words I came across...

Haven't met anyone so strong with such a positive attitude and everything.

Makes me feel so small.. cause something that has been there all along I didn't realise..

something that only when I chanced upon these words I realised.

I wish to meet someone with that much sense.

So sensible, so admirable..

But if I meet someone who talks all these to me, I guess what I will do is probably ignore his words.

Cause what you think now and what you do are just different.

The mind doesn't follow the heart, as you wish...

g0od nite~!

+____ . [ [ - sshii hhuii - ] ] . ____+
signing off.---+