GuYs driNk tO foRgeT abOut thE girL
GirLs dRink To tHink bAck aboUt tHe gUy

WheN guYs aRe in loVe, tHey becOme pOor
WhEn gziRls arE in Love, They bEcoMe pRettY

GuyS cAn forGet, bUt caNnoT forGivE
GirLs caN fOrgivE, buT cAnnOt foRgEt

GuYs cAre The mOst aBout tHe qUanLity Of loVe
GiRls caRe tHe moSt aboUt The quAliTy oF lOve

GuyS bReaK-uP whEn tHey feEl LovE froM anOtheR
girL
GirlS breAk-Up wheN thEy feeL tHe feEliNg oF
sepAratiOn froM hEr maN

GuyS feeL curiOsiTy toWardS aLl giRls
GirLs fEel cuRiositY tOwaRds gUys Who aRe
inTereSteD iN heR

WheN guYs arE heArtbrOken, tHey Try tO foRget
abouT tHe giRl bY goiNg oUt wiTh anOthEr girL
WhEn girlS aRe hearTbroKen, thEy trY tO fiNd hiS
charaCteriStics fRom AnoTher gUy

GuYs wiSh tO be hEr firSt lOve
GirLs wiSh to Be hiS laSt loVe ..

BOY: I need someone to talk to ..
GiRL: I`m alwayz here for you.
BOY: I know.
GiRL: Whatz wrong?
BOY: I like her *s0o* much..
GiRL: Talk to her.
BOY: I don`t know.. she`ll never like me.
GiRL: Don`t say that. You`re amazing.
BOY: I just wanna tell her how I feel ..
GiRL: Then tell her.
BOY: She won`t like me.
GiRL: How do you know that?
BOY: I can just tell.
GiRL: Well, just tell her.
BOY: What should I say?
GiRL: Tell her how much you like her.
BOY: I tell her that daily.
GiRL: What youu mean?
BOY: I'm alwayz with her. I love her.
GiRL: I know how you feel. I have the
same
problem. But he`ll never like me.
BOY: Wait. Who do you like?
GiRL: Ooh, some boy..
BOY: Ooh, she won`t like me either.
GiRL: She does.
BOY: How do you know.. ?
GiRL: Because who wouldn`t like you?
BOY: You..
GiRL: You`re wrong. I love you.
BOY: I love you too.
GiRL: .. so are you going to talk to her?
BOY: I just did.

: Missing someone is a terrible but at the same
time, sweet feeling.

U will be sitting around wondering if u meant
anything to him/her.

Thinking if he/she ever cares about u.

Rushing to the phone once it rings hoping that it's
him/her.

Looking out of the window hoping that he/she will
surprise u by appearing downstairs.

Sitting in front of the television but thinking of
him,
missing the final episode of your favourite show.

Laying on your bed, thinking of the last time u
were out together.

Thinking of how nice it will be to sit under the stars
again, talking about everything, your dreams,
plans, future.

Logging on to the internet hoping to see him/her
online.

When u realise that he/she isn't online and did not
return your page, u will start worrying if he/she is
okay.

Missing someone is a way of growing up i guess.

It exposes u to loneliness.

It teaches u how to cope with being lonely and let
u know that there is actually a feeling known as
emptiness.

Sometimes it feels good to miss someone.

U know that u really care and u indulge in the
feeling of loving/caring for him/her.

But missing someone and not knowing if he/she is
feeling the same is terrible.

U feel as if u are being left alone.

So if u miss someone, tell him/her and let them
know.

At the same time, ask if they miss u.

Don't let the feeling of missing someone become
jealousy or paranoia.

If u are the one being missed and u know it, let the
other party know.

If u miss him/her too, tell them.

Don't let them wait. .....

A long time ago in China, a girl named Li-Li got married and went to live with her husband and mother-in-law. In a very short time, Li-Li found that she couldn't get along with her mother-in-law at all.


Their personalities were very different, and Li-Li was angered by many of her mother-in-law's habits. In addition, she criticized Li-Li constantly.


Days passed, and weeks passed. Li-Li and her mother-in-law never stopped arguing and fighting. But what made the situation even worse was that,according to ancient Chinese tradition, Li-Li had to bow to her mother-in-law and obey her every wish. All the anger and
unhappiness in the house was causing Li-Li's poor husband great distress.


Finally, Li-Li could not stand her mother-in-law's bad temper and dictatorship
any longer and she decided to do something about it. Li-Li went to see her father's good friend, Mr. Huang, who sold herbs.


She told him the situation and asked if he would give her some poison so that she could solve the problem once and for all. Mr. Huang thought for awhile, and finally said, "Li-Li, I will help you solve your problem, but you must listen to me and obey what I tell you." Li-Li said,
"Yes, Mr. Huang, I will do whatever you tell me to do."


Mr. Huang went into the back room, and returned in a few minutes with a package
of herbs. He told Li-Li, "You can't use a quick- acting poison to get rid of your mother-in-law, because that would cause people to become suspicious. Therefore, I have given you a number of herbs that will slowly build up poison in her body. Every other day prepare some delicious meal and put a little of these herbs in her serving. Now, in order to make sure that nobody suspect! Its you when she dies, you must be very careful to act very friendly towards her. Don't argue with her, obey her every wish, and treat her like a queen."


Li-Li was so happy. She thanked Mr. Huang and hurried home to start her plot of murdering her mother-in-law. Weeks went by, and months went by, and every other day, Li-Li served the
specially treated food to her mother-in-law. She remembered what Mr. Huang had said about avoiding suspicion, so she controlled her temper, obeyed her mother-in-law, and treated her like her own mother.


After six months had passed, the whole household had changed. Li-Li had practiced controlling her temper so much that she found that she almost never got mad or upset. She hadn't had an argument with her mother-in-law in six months because she now seemed much kinder and easier to get along with.


The mother-in-law's attitude toward Li-Li changed, and she began to love Li-Li like her own daughter. She kept telling friends and relatives that Li-Li was the best daughter-in-law one could ever find.


Li-Li and her mother-in-law were now treating each other like a real mother and daughter. Li-Li's husband was very happy to see what was happening.


One day, Li-Li came to see Mr. Huang and asked for his help again. She said,
"Dear Mr. Huang, please help me to keep the poison from killing my mother-in-law! She's changed into such a nice woman, and I love her like my own mother. I do not want her to die because of the poison I gave her."


Mr. Huang smiled and nodded his head. "Li-Li, there's nothing to worry about. I never gave you any poison. The herbs I gave you were vitamins to improve her health. The only poison was in your mind and your attitude toward her, but that has been all washed away by the love which you gave to her."


HAVE YOU REALIZED that how you treat others is exactly how they will treat you? There is a wise Chinese saying: "The person who loves others will also be loved in return."

love ish a funny stuff which no one seems to
understand it. it comes and goes without letting
you know . you cant block when it comes and cant
stop when it goes.

what does love means actualli ?

<> loving him deeply ?
<> olwaes dere for him ?
<> video of happiness?
<> every single dae missing him ?

or

<> leting him go ?
<> order urself to forget him ?
<> visiting past memories ?
<> ensure dat u are strong to overcum ?

when love comes ?

u may hurt someone
someone may hurt u

some will be bless
some will be sad

some mayb ignore
some may b treasure

when love goes ?

some learn to let go
some choose to hold on

some stay strong
some commit sucide

life goes on for some
life turn hell for some


love seems scary but yet warm.. tender and sweet

when u are in love or out of love. u must olwaes
have a positive thinking. out of love is not the
end of world .and if u are in love . treasure
him/her nv hurt him/her olwaes haf trust and
faith in her/him.

loving someone yet he/she didnt know..

loving someone in slient it tough. u see her/
him every single dae yet she ish not urs. ppl
keep telling themselves dat if he/she ish happi
dey would b happy too. issit true can u realli b
happy if he/she ish hapi but not by ur side? if
u love him/her let him/her noe or u shall regret
it ur whole life when he/she was with someone
else..

sometime because of some decision u made u hurt
someone u nv wanna hurt..

sorry cant cure a broken heart and sorry can
bring back life..

broken heart can onli be cure by themselves or
time

but life once it is gone it will nv come back

treasure every single relationship and everyone
around you

Relationship ?

neber get in a relationship if u do not noe how
to love urself..

neber get in a relationship if u were onli
trying to play with it..

neber get in a relationship if u noe ur broken
heart cant contain anyone..

LOVE is happi LOVE ish sad..

LOVE ish touching LOVE ish hurting..

NO matter wat ish LOVE human still cant run away
frm LOVE..

cos the time they were being born into this
world they would received LOVE frm their parents

This is a love letter from a boy to a
girl....
However, the girl's father does not like him
and
wanted them stop their
relationship...... and so.. the boy wrote this
letter to
the girl.. he
knows that the girl's father will definitely
read
this
letter..

1----"The great love that I have for you
2---- is gone, and I find my dislike for you
3---- grows every day. When I see you,
4---- I do not even like your face;
5---- the one thing that I want to do is to
6---- look at other girls. I never wanted to

7---- marry you. Our last conversation
8---- was very boring and has not
9---- made me look forward to seeing you
again.
10--- You think only of yourself.
11--- If we were married, I know that I
would
find
12--- life very difficult, and I would have
no
13--- pleasure in living with you. I have a
heart
14--- to give, but it is not something that
15--- I want to give to you. No one is more
16--- foolish and selfish than you, and you
are
not
17--- able to care for me and help me.
18--- I sincerely want you to understand
that
19--- I speak the truth. You will do me a
favor
20---if you think this is the end. Do not try
21--- to answer this. Your letters are full of
22--- things that do not interest me. You
have
no
23--- true love for me. Good-bye! Believe
me,
24--- I do not care for you. Please do not
think
that
25--- I am still your boyfriend."

So bad!! However, before handing over
the
letter to
the girl, the boy told the girl to "READ
BETWEEN THE
LINES", meaning-only to read
1.3.5.7.9.11.13.15.17.19.21.23.25. (Odd
Numbers)
So..

: Long time ago..there was a princess
who
lived in
the palace..she was a very beautiful and
wise
princess..many prince has
come to ask for her hand..but,all of the
princes
was rejected... Finally,she decided to get
married..many competition was held to
choose her
husband..finally,only 5 prince was left..she
thought
of a plan..she hide her hand and stick out a
finger..each of the prince get to
guess which finger it was.. The first princes
show her his thumb..the second prince
show her
his 2nd finger..the third prince show her his
index
finger..and was slap by the princess..the
fourth
prince show her his marriage
finger..finally..the last prince show her his last
finger..The princess looked at the 5th prince
and
took out her hidden hand..the princess also
pointed out her last finger..she hooked it with
him
and they got married..they was very very
happy
together One day..the prince had to go to
war..the
princess was sad and worried..so,the prince
hook fingers with her saying that he will come
back alive for her.. Days past by,and soon,1
year
has past..the prince have not
returned..rumours
was spreading everywhere that the prince
had
died..so, many other prince came to ask for
her
hand to remarry..reluctant,she
continue waiting for the prince..years past by
and
she knew she had to marry again.. She
decided to
do the same thing..she stick out her last
finger
infront of the princes..but none of them know
what
she meant..they thought she wanted a ring
on her
last finger..so,she marry none of them.. One
day,a
beggar wearing a hat came and wanted to
ask for
the princess hand..at first,the
soldiers stopped him..but,the princess
thought that
everybody had a chance..so,she let him
in..the
princess did the same thing,and to her
surprise,the
beggar stick his last finger and hook it on
hers..
Later,the beggar took out his hat..looking at
him,the princess found out that he
was her lost husband..she hugged him.. and
they
were together again happily..days past... One
night,the prince woke up and walk out of his
bed..disturbed by the prince..the princess
woke
up
too..she followed him..but after he walked
out of
the gate..he disappeared..the princess was
sad..
Later,she found out that the prince had died
when
he was on his way back from the war..but,in
order to honour his promise..he came back
as a
ghost..7month is the ghost
festival..so,7X7=49..he
could only be with her for 49 days and ltr,he
would
vanished forever.. Finally,the princess found
the
prince body..she lied beside him,hook her
finger
with his and drank poison..so,that is how it
ends..

She was not beautiful.
Nothing about
her was extraordinary.
Nothing about her made her
stand
out in a crowd.

She grew up in a family of six and being
the eldest she learned responsibility at an early age.

As she grew stronger and brighter, she
instilled a sort of light and cheer to whomever she met.

She was not beautiful, but she made
others feel better about themselves.

She meets a rebel boy who thinks he is all man
befriending him, she teaches him.

She teaches him how to read and a little boost,
the 'man' needed to go to college.

They become fast friends and she fell fast in
love with her rugged handsome student.

The 'man' then finds himself in love with
a girl who was so beautiful. Her hair was a hallow of
light around her. Her eyes the bluest blue of
the ocean.

'Like an angel' he tells his tutor, 'like a beautiful
angel.'

The girl swallows a lump at her throat. She
was not beautiful.She did not posses the heart of
the one he loved, but she did not care.

As long as he was happy, she would be happy, or
so she tried to.

She helped write the most beautiful letters to
his angel, all the time visioning it was she
herself receiving those very letters.

And so the girl helped him choose the right
clothes, say the right words, and buy the right
gifts for his angel.

His angel brought him much joy, and much
pain to the girl who cried behind her smiles.

But that never stopped her from giving more
than she will ever receive.

Then one day, all of h--- broke loose...

The angel he loved left him for another man.
A richer more successful man.

The boy was stunned. He was so hurt, he did not
speak for days.

The girl went to him. He cried on her shoulder and
she cried with him. He was hurt and she
was hurt too.

Time went by and so wounds heal.

The boy realizes something about his
friend/tutor.
Something he never realized before.

How her laughter sounded heavenly and how her
smiles brightened up the darkest days, or how
simply beautiful she looked to him!

Beautiful. This plain, simple girl was beautiful to
him.

And he began to fall. Fall so in love with
this beautiful girl.

On one day, he picked up all his courage to
see her.

He walked to her house, nervous, and
fidgeting. Running his thoughts over and over his
head.

He was going to tell her how beautiful she
was to him. He was going to tell her how
wonderfully in
love he was with her.

He knocked. No one was home.

The next day, he found out that the beautiful
girl he fell in love with had a brain tumor that
put her into a coma.

The doctors were grim and the family
decided to let her go.

One final time he got to see her.He held her
hand. He stroked her hair and he cried for this
beautiful girl.

He cried, but it was too late.

The beautiful girl was buried and the
heavens broke.
Out a beautiful spring shower, a cry for their loss.

She was the most beautiful girl in the world and
she had taught the rebel boy-man to love and
what it is to be loved.

She was the most beautiful girl in the
world.

Look around. Isn't there a lot of plain
faces?

Take a good look. A real good look, or you
might just miss out that beautiful person.

Forever.

I should know.... wouldn't I?

man says: lucky ppl arer the first who can appreciate
wat pure simple love can be felt.. something that's from the heart and soul..

No Greater Love

It was a quiet morning in Korea. In a small valley,
there was a little wooden building with a corrugated
steel roof. It was an orphanage that housed many
young children who had lost their parents in the
war.

Suddenly, the quiet of the morning was shattered
when a mortar shell fell and landed squarely on top
of
the orphanage. The roof was ripped apart by the
blast
and pieces of steel roofing were blasted all through
the orphanage wounding many of the children. One
little girl was hit in the leg by the flying metal and
her
leg was immediately amputated just below her
knee.
She was laying in the rubble of the orphanage
quietly
when they found her. A tourniquet was
immediately
applied and a runner was sent to the MASH
hospital to
fetch medical help for the children.

When the doctors and nurses arrived, they begin
to
triage the wounded children. When the doctor saw
the
little girl, he realized that her greatest need at the
moment was blood. He immediately called for
records
from the orphanage to find someone with her blood
type. A nurse who could read and speak Korean
began to call out the names of all the children with
the
same blood type as the little girl. After a few
minutes
there was a group of wide eyed children
assembled.
The doctor spoke to the group and the nurse
translated, "Would one of you be willing to give this
little girl your blood?" The children looked shocked,
but no one said a word. Again the doctor
pleaded, "Please will one of you give her your
blood,
because if you dont, she is going to die!" Finally a
boy in the back raised his hand and the nurse laid
him down on a bed to prepare him for the taking of
his blood.

When the nurse ask for his arm in order to sterilize
the skin, the boy began to whimper. "Relax", she
said, "It wont hurt." When the doctor took his arm
and inserted the needle, he began to cry. "Does it
hurt?", the doctor asked. But the boy only cried
louder. "Im hurting him!", the doctor thought and he
tried to ease his pain and comfort him, but to no
avail.
Finally, after what seemed like a long time, the
blood
was drawn and the needle was removed. The little
boy
just laid and sobbed for a few minutes.

After the blood was given to the wounded girl and
her
condition was stabilized, the doctor was curious.
He
took the Korean speaking nurse back over to the
little
boy and told the nurse to ask him, "Did it hurt?"

The boy said, "No, it did not hurt."

"Then why were you crying?", the doctor asked.

"Because I was afraid of dying", the boy said. The
doctor was stunned! "Why did you think you would
die?" With tears in his eyes the boy
replied, "Because I thought that in order to save
her
you would have to take all of my blood!" The doctor
didnt know what to say! Then he asked, "But if you
thought that you were going to die, why did you
offer
to give her your blood?" With tears streaming down
his face, he said, "Because she was my friend and
I
loved her!"

if a girl cries in front of u,
it means that she couldnt take
it anymore.
If u take her hand,
she would stay with u for the rest of ur life;
If u let her go, she couldnt go back to
being
herself anymore.

A gal wont cry easily,
except in front of the person whom she
loves
the
most,
she becomes weak.

A gal wont cry easily,
only when she love u the most,
she put down her ego.

Guys, if a gal cries bcoz of u,
please hold her hands firmly,
coz she's the one who is willing to stay
with u 4
for the
rest
of ur life.

Guys, if a gal cries bcoz of u,
please dont give her up,
maybe bcoz of ur decision,
u ruin her life.

When she cry rite in front of u,
When she cry bcoz of u,
Look into her eyes,
Can u see n feel the pain n hurt she's
feeling?
Think.
Which other girl have cried with pure
sincerity,
In front of u,
And bcoz of u?

She cries not because she is weak,
She cries not bcoz she wants sympathy or
pity,
She cries,
Because crying silently is no longer
possible,
the pain, hurt n agony have bcome too
big a
burden to be
kept inside.

Guys,
Think about it,
If a gal cry her heart out to u,
And all because of u,
Its time to look back on wat u have done,
Only u will know the answer to it.

Do consider it,
Coz one day,
It may b too late for regrets,
It may b too late to say "im sorry".

Jin and I are best frens..we do anything
that best frens do together...One day, i realised
that i actually fell for
him...so i decided to confess to him
one nite where we camped with other frens. he
readily agreed to be my Boyfren...

Soon we started doing the usual stuffs that
couples
do, watching movies, having strolls in park, eating
together, going
to the beach...but life was not as fun when we are
still best fren....we're not as close as we used to
be when we're still best frens...he doesnt tok much
or continued sharing his problems with mi...and so
i tot he is not a suitable or loving boyfren...but i
quietly kept this on my mind...

But since the day he became my boyfren, i would
always recieve a small teddy
bear frm him... At first i thought it was lovely, but
then i
wondered why he would give me this...

One day, i was walking alone in the park we both
frequent...Then i
saw Jin together with another gal there..I crept
near
them softly overheard him saying "i love u' to the
gurl. I was enraged that i run home
immediately..Jin never said he love me all the while
when wer'e boyfren and
gurlfren.

Then at midnite one day, he came to my
house and passed me another
teddy bear that he used to give me everyday, then
said "Sorry, i forgotten to giv this to you today." his
presence only made mi even more angry so i
shouted at him, "Why u alwiz giv me
this crap? All i wan to hear from u is, I love you,
that's it, izit too hard???"

Jin kept quiet. He took my hand and place the
teddy bear on my palm and left..i threw
the teddy bear into my wardrobe.

The next day, Jin asked me out. We met at e
bus stop near my house...he handed mi a big
teddy bear but i threw the teddy to the middle of
the road as i still couldnt get over e incident. He
remained quiet and went to pick up the teddy. He
didnt realised a truck was coming towards him. I
shouted repeatedly to warn him but he just turned
back and smiled at
me,and...........................

*Bang*.
"JIN!!!!!!" I cried...the nex minute i know, he was
lying
on the road, the teddy in his hands covered with
blood. He was sent to
the hospital but in the end...i still lost him...i've lost
him FOREVER...
after attending his funeral, i went back home
and took out all the teddy bears he gav me since
the day we bcame gfbf...i counted the teddies one
by one... 1...2....3...101...230....300..364...and the
last teddy bear he gave me covered with his blood
was the 365th...it has alreadly been a year we
bcome
bfgf...i squeezed the teddy as my tears
flowed....suddenly...

*I love you~*
*I love you~*
i was shocked..i looked at the teddies...took
one of it, and pressed its tummy..

*I love you~*

i tried each and every teddy he gav me...

*I love you~*
*I love you~*
*I love you~*
*I love you~*
*I love you~*
*I love you~*......................

and the biggest was the last teddy Jin
gav me, I squeezed his big tummy...

*felicia, today is our very first anniversary.....i hope
to love you,
today, tommoro, the day after
and forever........I love you....*

i dropped the teddy........ i never realised that
Jin had actually told me those words..every single
day....till now... i slowly picked up the teddy and
whispered to the teddy's ear..

"i love you too, Jin..and i always did........"

If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't choose to rest in the other person's heart.

If you find someone else in love with you and you don't love her/him, feel honored that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return. Do not take advantage, do not cause pain.

How you deal with love is how you deal with you, and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are different.

If you fall in love with another, and she/he falls in love with you, and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame, Let it go. There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will know in time.

Remember that you don't choose love. Love chooses you. All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life. Feel the way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away.

Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you. Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you in anyway you can.

This is where many lovers go wrong. Having been so long without love, they understand love only as a need. They see their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love, and they begin to look at love as something that flows to them rather than from them.

The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as need. They cease to be someone who generates love and instead become someone who seeks love. They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away.

Remember this, and keep it to your heart. Love has its own time, its own seasons, and its own reason for coming and going. You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into saying. You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you.

But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do. Love always has been and always will be a mystery.

Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life. Don't deny love just only you don't want to be hurt... IF YOU KEEP YOUR HEART OPEN, IT WILL COME AGAIN .

from pwinkk.muii: to all the peeps out there.. *open out y0ur heart*..~